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Gossip Girl: Blair Waldorf [ESFJ]

Extroverted Feeling (Fe): find ways to take care of others, make them comfortable, and put them at ease. Comfortable in a wide range of social situations. Stand as a worthy ethical role model for others. Value fairness and form intimate connections with many to meet their needs. Desire a sense of togetherness. Recognize and adhere to shared values, feelings, and social norms to create harmony. Feel an intimate oneness with others and comfortably disclose feelings, values, and issues. Warmly offer praise and respect and enjoy the support of others. Offer many chances to make amends.

Introverted Sensing (Si): build on prior knowledge and experience to ensure success. Notice if something doesn’t match what is expected. Recall detailed data to support their decisions. Recognize familiar elements so they can act quickly. Trust common experiences and feel energized by participating in traditions to solidify the group or family. Follow others’ successful endeavors when trying something new. Reviewing the past to draw on the lessons of history, hindsight, and experience to feel a sense of security about the future.

Extroverted Intuition (Ne): enjoy spending time exploring new ideas or hidden meanings. Engage in conversations where potential possibilities are explored. The desire to connect the details of their wealth of data and experiences. Desire to learn about the unknown and hone their skills. Tendency toward being naïve at times.

Introverted Thinking (Ti): desire to objectively understand and appreciate others, but blindsided by an emotional disconnect. Detached analysis looks like heartlessness. Aspire to get things right by accurately understanding and applying principles to everyday interactions (often through extensive research).

Blair Waldorf goes from being the “queen bee” in her high school to wanting to be the toast of New York society as a fashion designer. She cares very much about what other people think about her, and expresses her emotions openly. Unfortunately, Blair can also be quite cruel to others; she understands their emotions and both how to appeal to them to get what she wants and how to hurt them (Fe). Blair is traditional. At first, she merely wants to fulfill her family’s expectations of her and marry Nate. Later, she maintains the traditions of the school and tries to walk in her mother’s footsteps. Movies help shape her dreams – she models herself after bygone heroines like Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn, and struggles to want to change herself or her life – in her mid-twenties, she’s still wearing headbands and clinging to old social rules (Si).

Her creativity comes in handy both for business and manipulating situations to her advantage; Blair is able to connect her own experiences with new ideas and find ways to recover from bad situations (Ne). She can be a little overly romantic and naïve when dealing with others. She trusts her emotional connection to people and charm to get her through problems, but is able to step back and think critically about people and situations. But doing so is always to support either her concern for them or her desire to use them in some way (inferior Ti).